January 21, 2008

Pastoring the Disillusioned

In the latest edition of the Sword & Trowel, Peter Masters has an excellent article on ministering to those who have left the charismatic circles. There are some valuable insights for any pastor who finds himself ministering to people who come from another evangelical circle. Pastoring the disillusioned is part of our calling. In my church we minister to the disillusioned from evangelical, charismatic, and fundamentalist circles. The similarities are often frighteningly the same.

Masters observes that there are at least three reasons why people leave the charismatic circle and join with a more traditional evangelical assembly. I think these three causes could also apply to believers who leave the KJVO fundamentalist church. The first cause or reason is a good thing. It is the mercy of disillusionment that God graciously bestows on His children for whom He has planned greener pastures. Disillusionment is often the tool that God uses to prod slow disciples.

A first cause, says Peter Masters, for leaving the charismatic circles is often serious disappointment or disillusionment which causes the believer to begin evaluating the claims of the movement. This, as has already been stated, is usually how God moves some of His children from one part of His Church to another part.

There are two more reasons that seem to cause a departure from the charismatic circles: personal “disaffection” and a “generally unstable temperament.” In other words, some may “come over to the derided traditionalists as an act of protest.” Others may not know how to think biblically and ground their thoughts in any kind of rational biblical theology. It is important that we recognize these, Peter Masters exhorts, because “we must be ready for disappointment.”

I have pastored people who are bitter and harbor personal vendettas against their former churches. They are personally offended and they embrace our teaching only because it is despised by the church they left. It doesn’t take long to see that these people are not sincere. It is usually a waste of time to invest anything more than a handshake in these people. But with sincere believers who are truly seeking the mind of Christ, it pays to think through what may be the lingering problems unique to those who have their kind of background. This is what Masters does in his article entitled wittily “Exercising a True Deliverance Ministry.”

Masters gives ten “lingering problems” that we may find in our friends who have left the charismatic movement. I’ll mention them here without comment.

1. The lordship of imagination.

2. A lingering trust in non-biblical sources of doctrine and comfort as in anecdotes and revelations.

3. Difficulty in adjusting to reverent, text-based worship.

4. A continuing thirst for phenomena such as healings and prophecies.

5. A lack of application and commitment to practical and genuine Christian service. [I break my no comment commitment here to say that I thought this was particularly insightful. Peter Masters says that the modern evangelical and charismatic movement is so focused on “me, me, me” that genuine service and true local church participation is a foreign concept to many “charismatic leavers.”

6. Confusion about whether the sign gifts have ceased.

7. Prevailing worldliness that lingers because of the prosperity emphasis. “Throughout the world the majority of charismatics have an approach to holiness that is quite different from anything previously seen in the history of th Christian Church. Separation from the world has little or no part in their holiness scenario. Nor (in most circles) does resistance to earthly wealth and comforts.”

8. Lingering pride from superior experiences.

9. A lack of understanding of biblical fellowship because the charismatic “hot-house approach to promoting friendships” but not biblical fellowship.

10. Struggles with doubt which leads to either cynicism or shallowness. “This is a product of their former intense loyalty to healings and other phenomena. The trouble arises from the simple fact that they never saw these wonderful things really happening in a certain, verifiable way. Even the miraculous signs have had to be taken on faith!”

Have you ever stopped to ponder on what may be the “lingering problems” of those who come to your ministry from harsh fundamentalism or the church growth movement?

I have.

Posted by Bob Bixby at January 21, 2008 04:36 PM | eMail this entry! | 700 Words
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Comments

Bob, just a comment on Sword and Trowel…

We must be on a time delay in getting them here in Canada. I suspect an institution called Canada Post is the culprit.

But regarding S & T, I have to commend it to all. I have received two issues since subscribing last year and have not been disappointed. Masters is very insightful. I recommend him to all.

With respect to this list of observations, I think that with slight variations these are essentially the problems one must minister to for folks coming from any other Christian group into one’s own ministry. There is always baggage, and it takes patience and wisdom to help the new ones to overcome the baggage, and faith on the part of the new ones to see the baggage for what it is.

Regards,
Don Johnson
Jer 33.3

Posted by: Donald Johnson at January 21, 2008 07:43 PM

Oh ya, I have because I was one of them. The assistant pastor at my last church, who also left the IFBX movement is also going through a few years of these hang ups…I’ll name some of them:

1. Distrust of Pastoral Leadership

2. Uncertainty of belief on major “doctrines” such as the IFBX ideas of soul winning, the KJV, separation, and standards which leaves them wide open to all kinds of errors since they were never taught spiritual discernment in the first place.

3. Bitterness and buried anger which always turns into a gossip session about how bad their last church was and how God has delivered them out of it every time they get together with other believers.

4. Unwillingness to make committments to service in their next church. They will only show up for fellowship type things, but not service.

5. Uneasy with the idea of liberty towards those who don’t see everything eye to eye with them.

6. Shock and disappointment with other church’s low emphasis on externals: dress, hair, elaborate church facilities, etc.

7. Struggle with equating numbers with success and blessing in their minds for authentication of validity.

8. Wide open to Bible doctrine that they were starved from learning, but vulnerable to swallowing a new system of theology without really getting it.

Thanks for the thought provoking here…i might blog on these points in more detail later on..

Posted by: William D at January 21, 2008 10:28 PM

William, your observations are interesting. I say this as someone who has struggled with several of these items to my own detriment. Once you “have a story”, you want to tell it. And you almost take some glee in the shocked look on the faces of those to whom you are relating the story, as though somehow you have been vindicated and your bitter resentment is justified.

While anger and resentment at damage done to the body of Christ in some of these congregations is understandable and appropriate, lingering bitterness over how it impacted you personally can be sinful.

Posted by: Pat at January 22, 2008 12:20 PM

In general, I agree in spirit with your article. I think I know what you are saying here, but perhaps it’s too broad of a statement:

“3. Difficulty in adjusting to reverent, text-based worship.”

I really don’t want to be too nitpicky, but that could be interpreted different ways. Some would say that if you show any emotion and/or raise your hands, then your worship is “emotional” or “irreverent.” That, in my view, is extreme. Some Baptists would say that unless you are a stoic Norwegian, completely devoid of all emotion, then you’re worship isn’t “spiritual” or it’s immature and “emotional.” In my opinion, “emotion” has been given a bad rap. Of course I’m not referring to rolling in the aisles and barking like a dog and being drunk in the spirit; that is just plain scary. But on the other hand, sometimes Baptists have automatically made the equation of: stoic, lifeless, vain repetition (in hymns and prayers) equals “spiritual.” I’m not sure I necessarily agree with that equation.


Posted by: jjones at January 22, 2008 12:47 PM

Mr. Penses, are you doing your blog for extra credit? How come when I find your link on another site it says 700 words or 1,250 words? Is your teacher saying you can’t have a blog without having so many words? It’s time to be free and write whatever you want, no matter how many words it has or doesn’t have.

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